I am so sorry, you are showing such streigth right now.
I dont have the words, but i know what it is like to lose a child as well.
Its wonderful to have your husband their with you for comfort. I truly am so sorry.
MonkeyPrincess
as some of you on the board knew i was expecting a baby, i feel i should let you know that things have not worked out for us.. when i went for the 20 week ultrasound scan last thursday, severe problems were found with our baby's internal development.
only one kidney was detected, and it was very enlarged and polycystic.
there was no long term hope for the baby at all; if it survived to full term it could only live for hours at most.
I am so sorry, you are showing such streigth right now.
I dont have the words, but i know what it is like to lose a child as well.
Its wonderful to have your husband their with you for comfort. I truly am so sorry.
MonkeyPrincess
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This is just SICK!!! i cant beleive that they would reinstate him or allow him in a congregation, someone this dangerous.
Im sorry about your brother Avishai, i hope he is doing ok.
This does not surprise me though, the "brother" the molested me is still in the same congregation with privleges and doing
fine, while i still struggle. Isint it so nice, the love they show him.
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one of my co-workers asked me that and i realized that i haven't made any plans for anything.
We leave on Tuesday, spending Christmas in Dallas with my husbands family, It will be the first time they are all together
in about 20 years, so will also be a family reunion. I am expecting it to be a little crazy, but FUN!
Anyone know what i can expect wheather wise in Dallas? I just love Dallas,cant wait to go.
boy!
(passes out fine cigars to all that want one).
we are 5 months along and due may 8th.
AWW!!!! Congratualtions!!!
Is he your first?
Our first is a boy, and i just love having a boy. I was raised around all girls so had no idea how to raise a boy. Now that he is
turning 3, its been one fun day after another.
Good Luck!
i called them and told the elders to not come to my house anymore.
i said i didn't want anyone from the kingdom hall to call on me.
to call on my the sisters not anyone.
This is getting insane, you must have put in lots of hours in the past to get this sort of attention. LOL!!!
This doesnt surprise me in the least, something similar happend to my sister. She was starting the fade, and one day some jw's
came to her door and kept knocking and knocking, then pounding on the door. Then my sister realized the door was unlocked, so
as she bolted for the door to lean up against it, they started to come in. They kept pushing on the door trying to force it open and
my sister kept pushing on the door trying to keep it closed. It was seriously like some deranged cartoon. They ended up giving up
and left, but she could not beleive that they did that. So, if they would go this far, i can just imagine the extremes they would go
through to get to trap you into a converstation. Your doing the right thing by making your calls and getting them to stop, otherwise
it will never end. Take care sweetie, I will call you soon, ok!
MonkeyPrincess
the thread about jael got me to thinking about all the biblical names i heard from witness children.. jael, barak, elisha, elijah, noah, matthew,.
anyone else remember new babies coming into the world and being given "biblical" names?
i thought it was hilarious when there was baby noah.
My husband and I are not religious people at all, but we named our son Joshua. We just love that name. My cousin who is also an
ex-witness named her newborn Elijah. I almost thought she was going to meetings again, since she is a sentimental type of person,
but thats not the case. Its just something about the sound of the names i think.
my son answered the door this morning.
the couple that my mr.horton and i had been studying with when we were considering going back to the truth finally got ahold of him.
the did the usual routine.
Hi Chris, That makes me so upset that they are doing that to your son and you too!
Gosh, cant they take the hint!!! I guess not, huh!
I think its time for you to make your boundries clear, otherwise you will never have peace.
They will always be after you and your son to "come back".
Im sorry that you are having a hard time right now, things will get better as soon as you draw
the line and move forward.
Im here for you sweetie!
MonkeyPrincess
i just registered right now.
i would like to introduce myself.
i am a 30 year old female and not a jw but my mother is so thats how i came by this site.
Welcome!
I wish i had some advice for you about your mom, but i dont. Im sorry that this is happening to you, but she is indeed told to limit her association with you, and other non-beleiving family members.
That is all too familiar.
I am sure that someone on this board will be able to answer your questions and help you along, there is alot of good information here.
Take care and i hope you find what it is you are looking for.
MonkeyPrincess
once i left i became about as "worldly" as a person could get.
world that once i left i went totally out of control.
when i left, .
(((((hugs alone))))))
Your story sounds exactly like mine. I too was raised a jw, so to find out that everything you have ever known to
be the truth is a lie, its quite difficult to swollow. You are going to go through all the emotions, its normal. I cried
for about 3 weeks after i found out. Luckily my husband found this site and led me to it. It has helped tremendously in
my healing. Bring your wife here, and let her read some of the information and the storys, she will understand alot
more. You found the perfect place to help you in healing and actually feeling normal in this world. You will get through
this, we will help in any way we can.
MonkeyPrincess
are there any?
to restate: when is comes to being friends with someone, are you "obligated" to do certain things?
I guess it would depend on the friend. But you should never feel obligated to your friends, a true friend would not make
you feel like you were obligated to them. When it comes to my best friend, and other close friends, i will bend over backwards to help, not out of
obligation, but because i truly love my friends.