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  Another JW Elder Claiming Clergy Privilage in Court Case

  by jamiebowers in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  jws brag that they have no clergy, yet this elder is claiming clergy privilege in a murder case:.

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  http://www.pe.com/localnews/inland/stories/pe_news_local_s_clergy09.3c06480.html.

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  Sir82...that having been said, my best friend was getting "sheparding calls" from a married elder who was giving her "marital advice" and he ALWAYS came alone to her home. And of course, they ended up getting hooked up. So they do that partner thing when its convenient. When I was not yet a baptized JW and was sleeping with the JW who introduced me to the troof (not my future husband) the elder I was talking to with all my gory details insisted that another elder be in the room when we talked. Some comply some dont to suit themselves.
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  I LOVE this VIDEO! Funny and DEAD ON!

  by WuzLovesDubs in

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  2. friends

  we live in an amazing, amazing world, and its wasted on the crappiest generation of spoiled idiots.

  | the copywriter under.... its really a quitcherbitchin perspective on life :).

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  “We live in an amazing, amazing world, and it’s wasted on the crappiest generation of spoiled idiots.” | The Copywriter Under...

  Its really a quitcherbitchin perspective on life :)
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  Pieces Lost

  by SeekingSanity in

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  2. friends

  how do i begin this... i feel like pouring my heart out about something that is bothering me.

  i'm getting older.

  you know when we were young, we were given hope.

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  The problem is that those "good sisters" no matter what the percentage is inside the organization, dont glow in the dark. You dont know who they are. And therefore your chances of finding one are the same as finding a good woman out in the world. I dated two brothers in the organization and they were both skanks...so there is no assured percentage apparently of good BROTHERS inside. I married a third one and gave it 22 years and it tanked.

  Dont use statistics as your excuse not to get OUT there hon. Unlike the JWs...the women in the "world" ARENT gonna come aknocking at your door!

  Welcome to the BOARD!!
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  Cruelty

  by WuzLovesDubs in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  im moving out of the house we have had for 10 years, and after 22 years of marriage.

  my two youngest are moving with me...to get away from their own father who really doesnt get what it means to be a dad or husband.

  and we are moving out of a 4000 square foot home that is torn apart from construction that seems to have no end (which isnt even worth what we owe on it any more and we couldnt afford to finish) .

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  Thanks again you guys...every time he does something like this it makes my leaving clearer to me. It IS the thing I need to do..for all of us.

  xoxo
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  Cruelty

  by WuzLovesDubs in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  im moving out of the house we have had for 10 years, and after 22 years of marriage.

  my two youngest are moving with me...to get away from their own father who really doesnt get what it means to be a dad or husband.

  and we are moving out of a 4000 square foot home that is torn apart from construction that seems to have no end (which isnt even worth what we owe on it any more and we couldnt afford to finish) .

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  Maybe it's me. Im moving out of the house we have had for 10 years, and after 22 years of marriage. My two youngest are moving with me...to get away from their own father who really doesnt get what it means to be a dad or husband. And we are moving out of a 4000 square foot home that is torn apart from construction that seems to have no end (which isnt even worth what we owe on it any more and we couldnt afford to finish) . Hence the reason we are moving and he is staying there. I left the separation open ended, thinking after maybe a year apart we can revisit the marriage. Sunday Im at work and get a text from my yougest that dads JW sister, JW brother in law and their FIVE kids were there for a barbeque. Mind you my husband NEVER invited anybody over to that house in 10 years we were there. And so he waits until the evil apostate wife is at work and asks the JWs to come over. I was pissed about that...I mean they shun me and theyre his family...but I was still pissed at the sneakiness of it.

  So yesterday I said to my daughter, I wonder if daddy is going to ask your Aunt to move in here? And her eyes flew open and her mouth fell agap and she said "Thats EXACTLY what they were talking about yesterday!" I about SHIT right there! You mean to tell me he is gonna have SEVEN people move into this house and take over the entire place and live in the rooms he PROMISED TO HIS KIDS?? Does he even care that his own children will no longer have a place to come to in their fathers home, THEIR home?? He apparently told my daughter those were his plans and said, "Well at least you will KNOW the people sharing the rent here and so it wont be ENTIRELY awkward for you when you come to visit." And she said he laughed about it. My youngest son apparently doesnt know about his fathers plans yet...and I think it will just make it worse between he and his dad. He already thinks his dad doesnt love him and doesnt care that he is moving out...and giving away his room will just put a nail in that coffin. Its just so fucking cruel to totally cut off his own kids like that. We have sacrificed everything, and the kids have been slaves working on this house...and now his father is giving away his room.

  I do understand that my husband wants a room mate to help with expenses but a family of SEVEN who SHUN me?? Living in MY house?? Taking MY kids rooms away from them for good??

  Im thinking now he is forcing my hand and I HAVE to file for divorce and end this. He apparently doesnt WANT me to come back or even TRY to work it out. Gawd...
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  "Breaking Up is Hard to Do" - how one woman ended her JW door knocker relationship

  by passwordprotected in

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  2. friends

  great blog post from an 'outsider' who was being called on by a jw every saturday morning.. breaking up is hard to do.

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  Ok maybe not LOL...
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  "Breaking Up is Hard to Do" - how one woman ended her JW door knocker relationship

  by passwordprotected in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  great blog post from an 'outsider' who was being called on by a jw every saturday morning.. breaking up is hard to do.

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  Ok maybe there are many Kyle Grossmans...with gmail addresses like my sister in laws...but that is just too weird.
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  "Breaking Up is Hard to Do" - how one woman ended her JW door knocker relationship

  by passwordprotected in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  great blog post from an 'outsider' who was being called on by a jw every saturday morning.. breaking up is hard to do.

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  Wow...I read this and went to POST something and there on the left side was this: KYLE GROSSMAN IS MY NEPHEW!! How would that have shown up on MY computer? I was going to post a reply and decide against it. How WEIRD is this???

  Choose an identity

  Google/Blogger You're currently posting as Kyle
  Use a different account

  Email follow-up comments to [email protected]

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  Not a Lurker anymore!!!!!

  by Ohio Nana in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i have been reading your posts the last couple of weeks and wanted to post and talk to all of you and at last i can.. first i am (or was)a unbaptised publisher but have jw daughter (really into it)and jw granddaughters and df son in law(for smoking).. i studied for 2 yrs and tried field service(hated hated hated it).anyway reading your posts helped me to make the decison that.

  i just couldn't go on going to meetings even to be with my grandchildren(who i love dearly)and living a lie.

  i believe jw's are a cult and the.

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  Welcome!!! The best thing, IMHO, you can do is learn learn learn. The best offense is a good defense. The more you know about the JWs the more you will be able to guide your grandchildren and your daughter who is caught up in all the hype. We ALL were there. The changes come from the inside of the JW and nobody and nothing can make that change or make them hear if they are not inclined to listen. JWs are if nothing else...stubborn, pigheaded and self righteous folks.

  But it can happen! We are all PROOF here!
  :)

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  My wife's meeting with the elders about our hanky panky

  by JimmyPage in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  well my wife met with the elders about our pre-marital activities.

  i told her i wasn't interested in going and i really thought i would catch some flak from the gifts in men about it.

  i was quite prepared to da if it came to it or just be straight up df'd.

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  In the long run this will have been good for HER though and I think she will feel better having unburdened herself of it so her conscience can give it a rest, ideally. And you can both put it behind you. On the other hand, it sort of puts a nail in the coffin where your returning to active JW duty is concerned and one step closer to officially closing the door on the whole operation.

  I have had to sit in front of the smelders and disclose the smarmy details of my own premarital activities. I was more disgusted with the whole procedure than anything. It is NOT any of their business what I do in the privacy of my own life where no one else is involved. But my fiance insisted we do this because it "bothered him". Sure as shit didnt "bother him" when we were doing whatever it was 23 years ago.