WARLOCK TRANSFORMS TO WYCKER MAN

by Sparkplug 23 Replies latest jw friends

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug

    doof:

    Is your daughter from the relationship with him? What does she think? Poor little kid(I'd imagine).

    She is not his child but he is the only father she knew. Part of what impressed me about him at first was his total devotion to kids.

    When he started snapping my middle girls bra though and other items, well I did not care how sacred marriage was, he was out of here.

    She cried at first a lot, but it is over a year and she has adapted quite well. She is still a bit confused, and thinks if he would just cut his black hair that he would be an ok guy. So there is still some work to do. She does not need to know it all and fixing her without breaking her heart is a fine line.

    Andi- You have a jedi, kung fu san su, warlock wyckerman in your past. Damn girl! I thought I was alone in my stupidity!!

    .

  • Billygoat
    Billygoat
    Andi- You have a jedi, kung fu san su, warlock wyckerman in your past. Damn girl! I thought I was alone in my stupidity!!

    Oh no hon. You don't have the market on bad boyfriend choices. I might not have a jedi, kung fu san su, warlock wyckerman in my past, but I do have a couple "recovering" alcoholic, cocaine dealing, money squandering, gambling addict, identity stealing thieves in my past. It took me several tries to realize I was standing in the "stupid department". LOL!

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug

    Andi- lol I have said "I used to be stuck on stupid".

    So that stupid department comment is funny.

    Glad you changed your choices.

    Me, I had to see that some of my better qualities also made me a great target. For instance: seeing the best in everyone. That has to go. Not a good trait. Gets you in the stupid zone.

  • doofdaddy
    doofdaddy

    Snapping your kids bra straps? See Ya!!!

    I too used to see just the good in others, then realise later, why didn't I SEE the real person?

    I reshaped my boundaries which it appears you've done

    Good on you Sparkplug.

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug

    doof- yes and that was the least of what he did. I have to see him most every day still because I once helped get him a job and now I am stuck with the reprocussions of this good deed. So I cant really talk of it at work and I have to deal with everyone expressing amazement when he tells them he was married to his ex wife and myself.

    It really sucks. It is as if he stresses that we were HIS ex's. Part of his making a harem goal that he had.

    So I don the face of a politically correct middle class working nice American girl and say sweet things like Betty Crocker would.

    "Well I wish the best for him".

    "He is just searching."

    "I don't really talk about him".

    "I have no idea of what he is up to...we don't talk."

    Then I go in the bathroom stall and LMAO. Sometimes beating my head on the wall helps.

  • Billygoat
    Billygoat
    Me, I had to see that some of my better qualities also made me a great target. For instance: seeing the best in everyone. That has to go. Not a good trait.

    Me too! I hate being cynical, and literally sometimes I have to force myself to do it. But you're right...I have to be careful because I always see the good in people...no matter where they came from. It takes a lot for me to see the bad, but if it's there, I'm learning to not hit the ignore button anymore. Hard lesson I'm still trying to learn. Trying being the key word.

    Glad you changed your choices.

    Glad you did too.

  • doofdaddy
    doofdaddy

    Aren't we humans funny critters?!

    I'm no good at putting on a "straight" face. I tend to react which can be difficult.

    I truly admire your ability to compartmentalise your true feelings. Hitting your head on the toilet wall?? Baby, it's not your fault. You did a loving deed (getting the ex a job) and he stuffed it up, not you.

    Harem? He can't take care one woman......Actually he can't deal with himself!

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug

    You know, I really have some good material for a few chapters in my bio I am trying to get back into the spirit of writing!

  • avishai
    avishai

    Does he go to burning man? He kinda looks familiar....sure would be fun to mess with his head!!! *not that i EVER would, of course, seriously*

  • Preston
    Preston

    Damnitt, I thought this thread was going to be about the movie, THE WICKER MAN...with Christopher LEE and that guy from THE EQUALIZER....

    (silence)

    (tumbleweed rolls.....)

    - Preston

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