I guess you guys got the equivalent of the 2:am drunk phone call. Was wollowing in my grief last night over the end of a relationship I didn't want to see end. I had talked about it before here : http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/85555/1.ashx
Anyway, everything finally came to a head for real and now it's all over. This was the first time I ever had so many needs fulfilled by a single person, I had cut off all other support people, basically said "this one is it". As time progressed, and especially after "my awakening" to the truth about my beliefs, the stress grew almost weekly. I wanted to be ok, be able to let my guard down and let someone all the way in, and really tried so very hard.
It's really a shame to me because she was the most genuine person I have ever met. But at the same time so absolute and black and white it was a struggle to really discuss abstract issues or any alternative ideas (especially about God) with ease. So it's the right thing, but it's not the easy thing, that's for sure. It was nice to be with someone who knew nothing at all about my past, but then the lack of support while learning about why I am the way I am has trumped it. Also I do not see this need to "associate"(for lack of a better term) with you guys going away any time soon, nor do I think it should. and it's a real sore spot as she has felt if we were the way we were supposed to be I wouldn't ever need to talk to anyone else about these things. In my opinion though, talking to a "normal" person about The Truth is like a woman trying to tell a man what PMS is like.
Hell, I've got so much baggage I'm suprised anybody could stand to be in a committed relationship with me, but hey, the dream of it was very nice while it was good. OK, I'm done whining for today...I'm gonna go kick a puppy.
WLG