Any who have read my posts know that I am using Steven Hassan's, Releasing The Bonds to help me free my wife from the borg. One of the most important steps for a loved one of a cult member is to build trust with their loved ones cult identity. I have found it difficult at times to keep bringing up the org to my wife all the time.
I came up with a new angle.
As we all know, turning in service hours is a big deal with dubs. My wife told me that she has used time talking with me as service time. I saw this as a great angle for talking at length about the org with out arousing suspiscion, and simultaneously building up additional trust by pointing out that the time can be used for her service report.
Try it out if you like it.