(I think one of the elder's wives leaked it) I thought that was the woman in the crowd?
OK, this is how it is done by JWs, including elders, pioneers, etc:
You can't see a "R" rated movie in the US as a JW. This is a principle (LOL). So wait to watch the movie on TV or rent the CleanFlicks version. So they watch the same "debased" theme without the F-words. Big F-ing deal.
You like modern pop music as a normal youth. But you change the dial when you hear the Beastie Boys because that group has been expressly mentioned in the mags. Don't forget all rap is forbidden.
You are getting married and your future husband is willing to get a vasectomy. Sterilization is a conscience matter. But your parents warn you your fiance will lose his priveldges if he has the operation. You ask an elder about who who was snipped 10 years ago when it acceptable by the WTS. He confirms your parent's statement. You try the pill and gain 20 pounds. Six months later you and hubby sneek an operation 50 miles from home and never tell anyone.
The core of the Org is leading a double life...