That's a very moving story, Brummie!
It just makes me wonder about how strong this hold is that the WTBTS had on us all. We have all these bad experiences and yet we stayed for years and years out of sheer fear of what they could take away from us.
Not only can they take your family from you but they claim to be able to take your eternal life.
Scary people.
But glad you learnt better from your father!
Best wishes!