I recently reunited with my best friend who I havent seen since 1989 when he got DFed.
I was unable to contact him for 15 yrs because of the DF indoctrination, but finally decided to contact him.
It was one of the best decisions I've ever made.
Jesus never shunned anyone. Neither should we. Especially our close friends and family members.
The Bible says to not even eat with "sinners, fornicators, etc" This is a personal decision and a practical suggestion. basically, if i think you are a jerk....then it is wise for me to not hang out with you. Plain and simple. It doesn't command us to shun and individual as a group based on decisions made by other men.
DFing is plain wrong.