Example of Christian Love

by Yerusalyim 8 Replies latest jw friends

  • Yerusalyim
    Yerusalyim

    My Brother-in-Law, I'll even publish his name to shame him (Shame on you Hiram Figueroa of Tampa-St Petersburg, FL) When his sister (again, my sister-in-law) was in need due to the death of her husband, he said, "move down here, I'll help you get set up" So my SIL and her two children move down there (oh, a fire destroyed her home, her husband had a heart attack as a result and died). ANYHOW she has no job, no money, NOTHING. She lives with my brother in law for one month, gets a job (wanna those high paying jobs at Wal-Mart)she starts to attend the KH again, takes her meager insurance settlement and pays her first month rent and deposit on her own apartment and gives the rest to Hiram at his insistence. THEN he tells her he owes her $600.00 more and must pay it back at $80.00 a month. Like she can afford it. My BIL makes more than TWICE the amount I do, has his home paid off, and no kids at home. Yet is still charging her even though he never told her she would owe a thing if she moved down there.

    I can't tell you the number of times my wife and I have helped her with her rent (not tooting my horn, just shaming Hiram AND THE CONGREGATION) She's went DAYS without food (literally 3 days once with NO food), if he gives her money for food, it's added to the bill he says she owes.

    The congregation knowing her plight hasn't lifted a finger to assist her (with the exception of one kind sister who took the family out for Pizza one time when she'd been several days with out food.

    The Elders do nothing. If I can get the name and address of her congregation I'm writing the Elders about the situation and hopefully shame them into some type of action. This fine example of Christian love is just one reason I'm NOT A Jehovah's Witness.

    Does anyone know where I can get addresses for the Kingdom Halls in St Petersburg?
    YERUSALYIM
    "Vanity! It's my favorite sin!"
    [Al Pacino as Satan, in "DEVIL'S ADVOCATE"]

  • logical
    logical

    St Petersburg phone directory perhaps?

  • Fredhall
    Fredhall

    Did the Elders know what was going on? It is sad to say that sometimes that they don't.

  • hippikon
    hippikon

    Does your un-named BIL have an E-mail addy that you wouldn't like to post so that he dosn't get unsolicited e-mail.

  • hippikon
    hippikon

    Fred - My respect for you increases daily

  • Fredhall
    Fredhall

    Well thank you.

  • hippikon
    hippikon

    Your welcome

  • VeniceIT
    VeniceIT

    Sounds like a typical little dub to me. Sheesh you know they think that they can go to meetins and in service and that's it!!! what happend to the Take care of widows and orphans??? or the fact that the sheep and the goats are being juged on HOW they treat others not what they belive!!! SHEESHH!!!! drives me buggy!!!!

    Ven

    "It is easier to fight for ones principles the to live up to them"--Alfred Adler

  • Yerusalyim
    Yerusalyim

    I'll find out about the email address deal, that would be TOO AWESOME. As far as your comment FRED, careful, you're starting to sound human. They are aware of her dire situation, though NOT I'm sure that Hiram is extorting money from her. He was also the executor of my other BIL will some years ago. All the bros and sis's were to get $10,000 a piece. Each recieved just $3000.00 Also, he was to hold money in trust for my neice until she reaches the age of 21 (in a year) but was to give her stipends when she needed it, and give an annual account of where the $100,000 is invested. So far NOTHING. Many suspect he's spent the money, or most of it. We'll see next year. I may finance my neice for a lawyer so she can sue his ass off when he doesn't come up with the money.

    Peace out dudes

    YERUSALYIM
    "Vanity! It's my favorite sin!"
    [Al Pacino as Satan, in "DEVIL'S ADVOCATE"]

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