My parents are still JW but im not out yet (still baptized, only 17 y/o). For my last year of school i've decided to open up more by trying to participate in extracurricular activiites and just assocciating with friends at school, and I even got invited to go to a football game by one of my friends, but i still havent been able to get invited to a party yet.
at work, this chick started inviting me to come hang out with her. she knows my parents are JW. this has been my 2nd weekend hanging out with her, the 1st one was a birthday party where i went out to eat with her and 3 of her other chick friends. she goes to another school, so the hang outs ive been going to i dont know anyone, but she told me to find out what party's are going around in my town and she'll come with me. i almost got caught last night, so i made up another lie by telling my parents i went to hang out with this one "worldly" friend (first lie was i went to hang out with my witness friends but i messed by getting home at 12). so all i got was 10:00 curfew, restricted driving, and sometimes my parents will follow me, and this is for a month atleast.
i swiftly ended the argument by faking distress and expressing how crappy the literature room management was, i was left to put up the new order by myself last thursday night while the literature boss wasnt there and the 2nd assistent was out congregating.
these few weeks of getting out have been a blast, ive met lots of people (instead of being stuck socially in my congregation),