for me it was the slow, purposeful fade....and you??
Which Way Did You Choose To Leave The Organization?
by minimus 53 Replies latest jw friends
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iiz2cool
I was going to fade but found I didn't have the patience for it. I wrote a letter.
Walter
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justhuman
FADING
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scotsman
Resigned as an elder and stopped attending meetings a fortnight later. Told the other elders that I'd never believed in it and that if I wanted help, I'd call them. I didn't.
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caspian
Like you I have tried to take it slowly.
However one elder this past month or so is taking a very special interest in "helping" me.
Why they can't just leave people alone..............
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Mulan
for me it was the slow, purposeful fade....and you??
We did that too. It took 2 years, but so far we were successful. Seven years out and we aren't df'd ...................yet!
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Maya
well, caspian, if this elder has taken you on as a pet project, it must be because you have not made your stance clear.........
I get soooo friggin' aggravated when people complain that the Witnesses won't "leave them alone"..........
Here's an idea.....
Grow a spine and STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!
How about telling them to NEVER come back to your house?
I have been here and done this and have the lousy t-shirt............
No one would tolerate a complete STRANGER constantly bothering them at their home.............
why are the Witnesses treated differently?
"if you stand for nothing, you will fall for ANYTHING..............."
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minimus
Perhaps, Caspian, they don't leave you alone because you stay friends with the Bethelites.
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Sassy
I decided just not to go back one day.
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blondie
I'm a fader, so far so good for 2 years.