So What If The WT Said You DID Have grounds For Divorce Then Retracted It?

by Englishman 11 Replies latest jw friends

  • Englishman
    Englishman

    Tricky, eh?

    So then:

    Questions from Readers: November 15, 1974

    ? Do lewd practices on the part of a married person toward that one?s own mate constitute a Scriptural basis for the offended mate to get a divorce?

    There are times when lewd practices within the marriage arrangement would provide a basis for a Scriptural divorce. Of course, the Holy Scriptures do not encourage divorce nor do they command the innocent party to divorce a mate who engages in adultery or gross sexual perversion.

    OK, so lets say that Sister Noway has divorced her over demanding hubby on the basis of the above information. She has since married a charmingly elder fellow who regards her body as a holy shrine and is ecstatically happy in her new role.

    Suddenly, 9 years down the line, this appears:

    Honour Godly Marriage. Mar 15th, 1983:

    What, though, if one mate wants or even demands to share with his or her partner in what is clearly a perverted sex practice? The above-presented facts show that porneia involves unlawful sexual conduct outside the marital arrangement. Thus, a mate?s enforcing perverted acts, such as oral or anal sex, within the marriage would not constitute a Scriptural basis for a divorce that would free either for remarriage.

    Will she now be judged as being guilty of adultery having divorced and re-married on a false premise?

    Will it be swept under the carpet?

    Suppose original husband still has the hots for his ex-missus, can he now just move back in with her as the new marriage is "scripturally" null and void and re-claim his role as head of the house? What about the new guy?

    I wonder how many people remarried under the no porneia rule during those years between 1974 and 1983?

    Henry V111 would have had a field day with this one!

    Englishman. (acknowledgements to Quotes)

  • Mary
    Mary
    Will she now be judged as being guilty of adultery having divorced and re-married on a false premise?

    Weeeeeell........someone's gotta be held accountable.......and god knows it won't be the Governing Body, so the answer is Yes, she will now be judged guilty as an adulterous. Let's take her out back and stone her to death.

    Will it be swept under the carpet?

    YOU GOT 3 GUESSES AND THE FIRST 2 DON'T COUNT.

  • Sassy
    Sassy

    should be able to grandfather clause it..

    when you are told you have grounds.........you have grounds..

    what? I guess no one ever heard the scripture let your yes mean yes

  • Euphemism
    Euphemism

    I seem to remember a QFR on a similar situation. It indicated that the divorce under the 'old light' would still be valid.

    I have to go back to work, so maybe someone else cand find the article; if not, I'll look for it tonight.

  • Rick Aust
    Rick Aust

    Englishman! Your problem is that your trying to be logical and reasonable! You silly man.

    regards rick

  • Englishman
    Englishman
    I seem to remember a QFR on a similar situation. It indicated that the divorce under the 'old light' would still be valid.

    Ah! So it was allright then even if it's not all right now? So, validity is a changeable commodity to JW's.

    Good point indeed, Euphamism.

    Englishman.

  • Euphemism
    Euphemism

    Found a direct quote regarding your question, Englishman:

    w83 3/15 31This is an amplification and adjustment in understanding of what appears in The Watchtower of November 15, 1974, pages 703-704, and of February 15, 1978, pages 30-32. Those who acted on the basis of the knowledge they had at the time are not to be criticized. Nor would this affect the standing of a person who in the past believed that a mate?s perverted sexual conduct within marriage amounted to porneia and, hence, obtained a divorce and is now remarried.

    Gotta love those "amplifications" and "adjustments"!

    Also gotta love that phrase "those who acted on the basis of the knowledge they had at the time." How about "based on the clear and explicit instructions that we gave"? But of course, you'll never find them taking responsibility.

  • Undaunted Danny
    Undaunted Danny

    Honest to God.This issue was a chief component in my staying single all my JW adult life.

    Especially for me,because i always teetered on a 'totalproctocolectomy'.( complete removal of the lower bowel,the colon )

    When a Doctor test a man for an enlarged prostate he does a 'digital exam' with the ole latex glove to feel the prostate gland through the Bowel wall.

    What's this tell ya?That the prostate is right next to the bowel.During surgery the 'nerve plexus' surrounding the prostate was inadvertantly severed.

    Soooo,that's why there was a 90% chance of my becoming Impotent.

    Anyhow the counsel was to 'Just hang in there because everything is only tempoary'.

    If i was married to a sister and became impotent,how would i meet her needs?

    Moreover,how do i explain all of this on a date?Like I just did!

  • Sunnygal41
    Sunnygal41

    They can kiss my rosy pink butt (I was gonna put fanny, but isn't that a slang for something entirely different in England)

  • rick1199
    rick1199

    lol, in the UK fanny mean 'front bottom'.

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