Platinum, my experience is that the right person comes along when you are not expecting it and not even trying.
You're more relaxed and more yourself. And it takes nervousness right out of the equation.
Mentally take yourself off of the market and focus on the gym like you've planned for 6 months.
I'm willing to bet that within those 6 months someone will show up that you'll be willing to put yourself back on the market for. ;)