I Put a Curse on my Ex-fiance

by Nosferatu 14 Replies latest social relationships

  • Nosferatu

    Last night, me and my current fiance decided to go out and do some singing at a karaoke bar. We've both run into my ex-fiance a few times, but I hadn't seen her there in a while. I figured she finally got fired from the Salisbury House close to there.

    Anyway, we get out of my truck and head toward the door. Right away I notice her standing outside having a cigarette with the Karaoke host. So we go up and say hi. My ex seemed kinda excited to see me. The convo went something like this:

    Ex: How are you?
    Me: Good
    Ex: I found Kipper and Shadow's (my cats) stockings. I was going to mail them to you.
    Me: Oh yeah.
    Ex: I'm moving to Ontario in two weeks

    (Good! Bon voyage, bitch!)

    Me: Oh yeah.

    She kept getting interrupted by other people outside talking to me. We basically went inside after. I went and greeted all my friends, and found myself a seat. I then headed to the bar to get a drink. There she was again.

    This time I took a good look at her. I noticed she's looking sickly. She lost too much weight and looks anorexic (sp?). Her looks are starting to go downhill, and in a few years she's going to look like her mother.

    For some reason, she seemed incredibly anxious to talk to me. By the way she was acting, I would think there's something very wrong with her psychologically.

    Ex: Hey. I was going to call you, I have your number
    Me: Yeah?
    Ex: How are the cats doing?
    Me: They're doing good.
    Ex:: How's Shadow doing?
    Me: He's doing allright.
    Ex: Whenever I think about him, I start to cry.
    Me: Yeah?
    Ex: Yeah, I miss him. I can't help but cry.

    Wah. It almost seemed like she was hinting for me to give him back to her. Forget it.
    Now that she's exposed her emotional strings, time for me to tug on them a little.

    Me: Yeah, Shadow's starting to get pretty old now.
    Her: Yeah?? Awww.
    Me: Anyway, I need to go pick some tunes to sing.
    Her: Okay. Fine.

    She seemed a little upset that picking songs to sing was more important than talking to her. All night, I was trying to figure why the hell she was so desperate to talk to me, let alone call me. When I got home, I figured it out....

    ....Seven years ago, when we were just dating (during Christmas time), for Christmas, I made her a video. She absolutely loved it. Basically, the video helped get us back together when we broke up the first time. She watched it over and over when she wasn't with me.

    When she left me the second time and I was packing, I found the video. I was heartbroken and pissed off, so I grabbed the video and shoved it in a box of Christmas stuff she decided to take. After I put it in the box, I thought "Here you go bitch, may this video haunt you forever". Looks like it's doing it's job. After all, it's her video.

  • morty

    bitchin at what she cannot have?...she is more then likely having little regrets....Maybe you did put a curse on herClub Me(beatin some sense in to her did'nt work, did it?...lol)


  • Stacy Smith
    Stacy Smith

    It sounds like you still have some strong feelings about her. How long has it been since you and your ex broke up? Was there much time between breaking up and getting engaged again?

  • unbeliever

    My ex behaved in a similar way when we would run into each other in public after I dumped his sorry butt. He loved to tug on those heart strings but kept it very casual. Eventually he started e-mailing me questions that he could have very easily found out from someone else. Then they got more personal and then the I'm sorry baby please take me back started. I miss you I can change blaw blaw.

    If she starts e-mailing you its a safe bet that she wants to get something started again. At the time I took real pleasure in rejecting him over and over again. I was happy that he realized what he lost and that he knew I was was happy to be rid of him. Believe it or not we are friends now. It took a long time though to reach that point.

  • Nosferatu

    I'm not sure where you get the idea that I still have feelings for her. I feel nothing when I look at her or talk to her. We've been split for 2 1/2 years. I've very much moved on with my life since her. Looking back on my life with her, I don't desire for anything like that again. She treated me like garbage, but I didn't realize it until she was out of my life.

    I've run into her before, but there's usually been nothing but "hi, how are you". This came across as kinda strange. As far as I'm concerned, we settled everything 2 1/2 years ago.

  • Stacy Smith
    Stacy Smith

    Well nosf it just seemed you had feelings based on the title on the thread. No biggie, I was just wondering. It's been 2.5 years since you broke up so most of those feelings are resovled I'm sure.

    It's never easy to determine feelings on a db.

  • Lost Diamond
    Lost Diamond


    You come across as if you have some ill feelings toward her, hurt, or at least some internalized anger (e.i. calling her a bitch). Do you think this is true? Why are you happy that you "put a curse on your ex-fiance"? You may feel quite a bit of relief next time you see her if you can just release that resentment towards her. Let it go. No need to put a curse on anybody, really. You would feel a lot better and would move forward so much easier and with much more gratification if you could let go of that hurt. I'm speaking from my own experience, and I am making no judgment call on you....just trying to help :)

    Take care,


  • Gadget

    I had a similar thing to this last weekend. I was staying a friend in another part of the country, and we went for a night out with her sister and her husband. I used to go out with her sister, but we split up 9 years ago. Towards the end of the night we were all pretty drunk, and her sister pulled me over to one side to have a chat. She started off asking what was happening with me and the lass who I went down there with, and then started having a go at me about something that happened 10yrs ago when we were going out. We got that sorted, then she told me that she still loved me. This is on a night out with her and her husband.... I was at their wedding last year, and their engagement party the year before that. I just think the whole thing is weird.

  • Valis

    Got a couple women I've known and I have thought the same thing about eheh...and the theme for one of my favorite songs..

    Baby Bitch It's been a while since I've seen you smile
    But now you've come back again
    Came into the room and you saw my girl
    And you asked her how long it's been
    "A year" she said and you shook your head
    Said "I'm surprised it's gone on that long"

    Baby, Baby, Baby B***h
    For words I am at a loss
    Baby, Baby, Baby B***h
    I'm better now please f**k off

    What else you gonna say when while
    you're back on your stay
    Maybe something, maybe nothing, we'll see
    It's just too bad, you're beautiful I guess
    I wasn't for you and you weren't for me

    Baby, Baby, Baby B***h
    Please slip back into yourself
    Baby, Baby, Baby B***h
    Go conquer someone else

    People say, "How beautiful, how sweet, how kind"
    You're perfect, you've got nothing to hide
    But I, for one, have seen the sun
    And the B***hthat you've locked up inside

    Got fat, got angry, started hating myself
    Wrote "Birthday Boy" for you babe
    Now I'm skinny and sick and paranoid
    Without a cent to my name

    Baby, Baby, Baby B***h
    F**k you, you stinkin' ass ho
    Most beauty I've seen
    you come from a dream
    But I can't close my eyes anymore
    No, I can't close my eyes anymore


    District Overbeer

  • Gadget

    It reminds me of that old joke, about the connection between a woman and a carpet.........

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