There was a post recently where the person was df'd (or da'd or fader?) and had a friend who had already died. Let's call the fader/df'd person Joe and the dead friend Bob. Anyway, the conversation was that Joe should come back to the org because in the new system after the Big A Bob would wonder what happened to Joe and would miss him.
My question is this, sometimes I see that a df'd person must come back so they can be in the new system with loved ones and other times I see posts where the arrogant zealous jw says things like, "I'm glad I won't remember my non jw or apostate family members in the new system".
So which is it? those that make it into the new system do remember previous life with non jw & apostate members or jah somehow makes them forget these people?
hoping I am not having a senior moment here! I am not up to date on things or have I forgotten?