My super fine Eldub BIL, has a son that's been Df'ed for a long time. Last month he deeded off 1/4 of an acre of land in the back of his pasture, bought a small local built used tiny house, and got it all set up, for his son to live in. To everyone of the jw's in this area really look up to him and his stand on having NOTHING to do with his Df'ed kid's or grandkids. Yet I see them often turn down the road their girl and grandkids live on, it's a dead end road with nothing else on it, and no jw's from the area live anywhere near it. They stay for several hours at a time. Their girl says that whenever they visit, it's like nothing's wrong, and they all just have a good time. But she has to promise not to ever tell anyone about it. He did this for his son, because he's a drunk and can't keep a job, and has lost his rights to drive. This way Eldub can say no he doesn't live with us, and keep his position!!! The bit of land is on the back end of his pasture and over a hill where it can's be seen. The son can't sell it for it's land locked!!!!
The kind of work eldub dose, he is often paid in cash. He often pocket's a pretty good pile of cash without reporting it as income, and used it for vacations and his new position on the LDC, to cover taking time away and pay the cost involved. And then he can take the cost off of his taxes!!!