So can we return to traditional definitions of gender and sexuality without undoing the entire economic system which has produced the instability in the first place?
Countries with the most rights and freedoms for women tend to have more women in the most 'traditional' gender roles when they have the ability to chose.
Feminists and cultural marxists hate it, but it's a fact that men and women differ in group characteristics and the 'traditional' roles tend to match those characteristics more than the ones they try to promote.
Modern culture doesn't necessarily do much for women - go out to work so you can pay someone else to look after your children? I think most women would naturally prefer to care for their own kids if they had the free choice.