I spoke to an elder and friend about The Who is your mediator subject. I had prepare a 14 page document showing exactly via the Bible that Jesus was the mediator for all . I thought he was there to show me where I was wrong and correct me. Well in all reality yes but he barely looked over the document. After several meetings I came to the conclusion that he was also on a fishing trip to see if I was being influenced by apostates etc.
second meeting him him and another one contacted me over the blood issue , my wife had called them. They informed me that I could just leave the religion not a big deal one of them had done it when he stopped being a Baptist.
Bottom line they don't care about the one lost sheep just protecting themselves and other in the congregation from using their brains.