Hi everyone
I posted a thread last night about trying to find the best way to break things off with my (unbaptized) JW girlfriend. For more details see http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/54192/1.ashx or look at my personal profile. I had some replies (all of them helpful) so this morning I phoned her and asked could I go over and see her. She thought it was a bit odd, and asked why, so I told her that I wanted to talk. She said she knew what I wanted to talk about, and that she wanted to talk too. When I got through her front door she was waiting for me, and we just hugged each other. So we sat down, and talked, and both admitted that in the past few months we had been growing apart, and that a split would be for the best. She also admitted that she was getting ready to phone me tommorow about breaking things off, so it seems that the split was a mutual parting which relieved the both of us.
It's such a great relief to know that it was an amicable split (I had always feared that a split between us would be acrimonius), and that we can both now get on with what we want to do with our lives. Although my links to the WT have now been more or less severed, this isn't the last you guys will hear from me. There are too many nice, friendly people on this board, so I'll still be coming back and posting and chatting on a regular basis.
love, greetings and best wishes to you all
Lee / figureheaduk