IMHO, its the one Rodney Spinks and Terry O`Brien parroting the Governing Body direction is that when somebody leaves the religion whether they just fade ,disassociate or even get disfellowshiped ,then they are in fact shunning all members of all congregations worldwide including family and friends ,.according to their testimony at the ARC.
This is a blatant lie and misrepresents the Truth,.and they know it.
When a person leaves the religion for whatever reason they are rejecting the Governing Body`s Teachings ,Doctrines and Practices of the religion of Jehovah`s Witnesses and not all peoples associated within the congregations.
Especially not family and friends who they may have long standing relationships with.
They try to shift the blame and put the onus on those who leave.
Shame on them for perpetuating such a lie.