She tell one of the elders
she have a BIG problem sexual urges, she pray on it but the desires are strong.
A year later, she and the elder DF. Needless to say he was no Joseph.
This is one of the serious problems with patriarchal systems: Women who have no recourse but to unburden their personal problems to ....men. Talk about awkward barriers.
Why on earth don't these kinds of men-centred religions assign roles for mature women to provide support and counselling for sisters with personal problems that would be very difficult or too sensitive to share with brothers?
I know. I know. They can't becasue they profess to practice first-century Christianity where women's roles are markedly subservient.