Thank you all for your helpI am sorry that I haven't written back to you but I have been swamped with finals. With your help I think I am able to get a good grip on this, I hope I don't get too emotional. The kid today was talking about stem cell harvesting from the umbilical cord and using it for cancer etc. When he mentioned his Mother having chemo for Breast Cancer. He turned so red and got redder and looked like he would cry at any time. It was so emotional. I just want to be in touch but detached enough not to get to upset. Only seven minutes but hey I may keep someone from being ensnared with the dubs