I'm still amazed by the beard nonsense. [..] Still astounded by the vast number of brothers who Immediately started growing one.
I completely agree. I've never liked having a beard - once I get a few days of stubble growth, I have to get rid of it - so the beard "controversy" was no issue to me, except that it always seemed ridiculous as a "rule". Surely, IF you were going to make a rule about beards, it would make more sense to say that men HAVE to have a beard, rather than say they SHOULDN'T, given Bible history (for example Leviticus 19:27)?
Then, when the "ban" was lifted, suddenly so many elders started growing beards! It seems bizarre to me. Were all these men really desperate to wear a beard but felt supressed by the GB "ruling"? Or was it a case of "kid in a sweetshop", that once something previously 'taboo' was made acceptable, they all wanted to rush to have a piece of that?
Over time, some have since shaved their beards off again but many have not, so I presume for many it was that they really did want to grow one (or perhaps their wife wanted them to), but they felt unable to.
Regarding birthdays, I understand what Rattigan means to an extent. Being born is an accident of circumstances for us (or fate, if you believe in that) - not something we put effort into. Whereas, making a marriage last another year requires effort from both parties.
However, you could say that surviving another year IS an achievement, especially it would have been so in previous cultures and societies when lifespans were short and there was high child mortality. The sad fact is that celebrating birthdays probably arose as a result of the fact that few children lived into adulthood.
Again, birthdays are something I'm 'agnostic' about. I have no kids or siblings, and never felt bothered about my own one way or another, so I don't really feel I have a strong opinion on the subject.