Many thanks for all your replies!
Rocketman (thanks for the encouragement)
Jgnat (great links)
Francois (thanks again for all your help)
refiner's fire (I'll try and get the book)
the mole (another book on the list)
Farkel (I'll ask the squirmy question)
Utopian_Raindrops (great info, could be used in later discussion)
blackout(yes, they are very contradictory)
ARoarer (great link, thanks)
AlanF (an absolutely awesome dissection and refutation of that WT article! THANK YOU!)
JeffT (I actually have that book somewhere. I Will dig it out)
Minimus (thanks for your email).
I've actually spent most of any free time I have at work today reading and downloading all the great info. It certainly will be of great help!
AlanF's ESP is actually very acute! Guess what appeared out of nowhere on the kitchen table this morning? Yes, the WT article "Are Jehovah's Witnesses a cult?" that AlanF so brilliantly tore apart on the previous page! It would seem that that article is going to be the basis of "their" argument!
Now isn't that just brilliant!
OK, everybody, thanks again. I'll let you know the results of the encounter!