NEWS - VICKI BOER ABUSE CASE - Toronto Sun

by hawkaw 9 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse

  • hawkaw
    hawkaw

    Right on people - we got another story.

    http://www.canoe.ca/TorontoNews/ts.ts-09-10-0027.html

    Tuesday, September 10, 2002

    Abuse case opens

    Church, elders sued over alleged coverup

    By IAN MCDOUGALL, TORONTO SUN

    A New Brunswick woman who claims the Jehovah's Witness church hid the sexual abuse she suffered at the hands of her father took the stand yesterday as a civil trial of her case began.

    The 31-year-old woman, whom the Sun is not identifying, is suing the church and its elders for $700,000, alleging they did not report the abuse she suffered to the Children's Aid Society.

    Instead, she alleges, they tried to hide the abuse, discouraged her from getting counselling and made her confront her father and relive the abuse.

    Under questioning from her lawyer, Charles Mark, she testified yesterday that she suffered guilt and was ostracized by her friends and family in her congregation in Shelburne after she revealed the abuse she suffered from age 11 to 15 in the late 1980s.

    "I felt so guilty because it was wrong," she said yesterday. "I was scared of him."

    She eventually told her mother of the abuse and her father confronted her, she said.

    'YOU ENJOYED IT'

    "The conversation started off, 'I know you've told your mother, but come on, you enjoyed it. You were a willing participant,'" she said her father said. From that point, she said, her mother blamed her for tensions at home and in the community.

    Still suffering from guilt over the abuse, the woman reluctantly took her case to two church elders, Brian Cairns and Steve Brown, who are also named as defendants in the suit, which was filed in 1998.

    Brown and Cairns forced a meeting with the woman and her family in late December 1989, at which her father confessed he violated her.

    Mark opened his case by arguing the church had never notified the province's CAS office once it became aware of the abuse.

    "The statute says on suspicion of sexual molestation it must be reported to the Children's Aid Society. That never happens," he said.

    But defence lawyer Colin Stevenson said the church fulfilled its obligations and in fact forced the woman's father to turn himself in to CAS officials in February 1990. No charges were laid.

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    This is great news folks.

  • hawkaw
    hawkaw

    The CP article made my local paper in Kingston ..... right on

    http://www.southam.com/kingstonwhigstandard/newsnow/cpfs/national/020909/n090999.html

    hawk

    Edited by - hawkaw on 10 September 2002 8:25:37

  • hawkaw
    hawkaw

    The Toronto Sun article stayed local.

    I think it will be read by about 500,000 to 750,000 people in Toronto Today.

    Bring it on baby!!!!!!!

    hawk

  • hawkaw
    hawkaw

    FLAG!!!!!

    hawk

  • concerned mama
    concerned mama

    There was a good sized article in the Edmonton Journal. Unfortunately, it was quite hidden away as a sidebar on the auto classified adds page. At least they covered the story, even though no one will find it.

  • RunningMan
    RunningMan

    It was in the Saskatoon Star-Phoenix today. Nothing in Regina, yet.

    Although, the paper may be getting tired of JW news. On Saturday there was a half page article (Regina) on page 3 regarding shunned father's lawsuit.

  • hawkaw
    hawkaw

    Great news people - its gone coast to coast.

    More to come of course but I am glad when the CP runs a story.

    hawk

  • waiting
    waiting

    The poor girl. If she would have screamed and told the police years before - and nothing happened to him, she most likely would have been beaten/abused even more.

    So she shuts up, then finally speaks up. Because she didn't speak up sooner, "You enjoyed it." is the abuser's revenge upon her.

    I hope she wins - she deserves it.

    waiting

  • concerned mama
    concerned mama

    Running Man,

    I think that you have a point about the papers worrying about JW overload in their stories. The words "Jehovahs Witness" were in a much smaller, lighter font than the rest of the headline.....perhaps 1/4 the size. Could congregation members have phoned their local paper and complained that the coverage was not balanced?

  • abbagail
    abbagail

    Thanks for the update/article. Some men are such PIGS! Gaaawwwwwwd, it makes you want to STRANGLE them on the spot. "You Enjoyed It." HOW SICK CAN YOU GET? (Let's see how HE would like being raped, if his butt could be thrown into prison for his crimes!) --- That comment reminds me of my rapist when I was 11 years old. He said, "You'll THANK ME for this LATER." I had NO earthly idea what he could mean by that. WHY WOULD I THANK HIM EVER? Again I say, WHAT PIGS!

    Grits (Fuming)

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