you are making the classic mistake that former jw often make OVER KILL
TAKE A lesson from the wt- i recall how so many jw would OVER KILL THIER families with the things they were learning as a jw and piss their family off.
my mom is a perfect example - when her bro came back to NC from NY he had just gotten baptized and the first hour home he told my mom who was a baptist that there was
no christmas, hell, not all going to heaven, baptist been teaching lies and YOU DON'T HAVE TO PAY THE PASTOR OR buy that new Cadilac for him..
my mom THRU him out of the house and it was almost 2 yrs before they would speak
well a good jw knows that you can't OVER KILL FOLKS WT HAS TAUGHT its members to serve small portions steak instead of eatting the whole cow-
case in point ABOUT 6 yrs ago the km instructed all bible studies to be introduced to THE ORG
IN FACT a good jw would set aside 15 min at the end of the reg study to share some facets of the org with person and for reason to build appreiation and in time the person would accept the most important dogma wt has THE FDS speak for god, once a person has accepted that concept EVERYTING ELSE IS MOOT that is what you are trying to remove from their hearts and mind the FDS speak for god
so here you have your folks who have been jw for 10-50yrs, meetings week in week out and all this constant indocritnation any you want to go over with a few pages of some funky Xeroxed copies of some stuff you got off THE INTERNET and snatched them out of the org YEA RIGHT
MY DEAR friend my advice to you is to listen to those WHO HAVE BEEN WHERE YOU ARE ABOUT TO GO
BUT NOW that you are no longer a jw it is true no one can tell you what to do, but i would highly recommend you follow the advice given if you want any chance at getting your folks out
just my 2