Pornography and Sexuality

by Beans 27 Replies latest social relationships

  • Kingpawn
    Kingpawn

    Outoftheborg,

    Well Dinky, if it is any consolation I have the same dilema you spoke of. I notice that some gays/lesbians seem to be kind caring people. The kind of people that do not deserve the hate that is generated in some, from religion and public beliefs. Yet I believe that life style to be difficult to say the least and would not recommend it to my children as I would not recommend promiscuity.

    Many gays/lesbians are kind, caring people, as you say. Many others are pricks. These same observations apply to heterosexuals as well obviously.

    This lifestyle can't be "recommended" since it's not a choice. With all the hate directed at us which you're aware of, no one would logically choose such a disadvantageous way of living.

    Having said that...back to the thread topic.

    I've become a bit more liberal in what I'm willing to try. Have my attitudes changed since leaving? Not an easy one to answer. I was naive at that time so most changes could be called "coming of age."

  • dolphman
    dolphman

    Well, i've always been a bit of a pervert, even at an early age. But not as big of a pervert as some elders wives/daughters.(serious)

    Actually some of the best sex i ever had was with a jw girlfriend i had when i was 19.. It was great! Everything was so intense because of the guilt involved. It was like a soap opera.

    Nowadays, there is no guilt. That's the best thing. I have a girlfriend who i live with and things are good. We watch porn and have a great time.

    THe only thing that changed for me is I stopped feeling guilty about being a sex maniac. how liberating.

  • DanTheMan
    DanTheMan

    It is only since leaving the WT that I've been relieved of my porn addiction. IMHO porn is a cancer in our society. Too much is made of sex.

  • Beans
    Beans

    I can understand the guilt thing, the first time I ejaculated I was 13 and this girl on my street gave me a hand job. After this happened I felt so so bad and that I would never do it again the guilt overcame me UNTIL two days later when she did it again and she did it all summer. Three years later I left the TRUTH thanks to those hand jobs.

    Beans

  • Solace
    Solace

    In one sentence,

    I now have orgasms without the guilt.

  • SPAZnik
    SPAZnik

    lol @ Beans


    SPAZ

  • back2dafront
    back2dafront

    I'm pretty sexually liberal myself. It's been interesting actually becoming friends w/ lesbians/homosexuals, because it's been engrained in my mind that it's wrong, yet once you get to know homosexuals you understand it's not a "sexual perversion" at all - they are really attracted to the same sex. I never comprehended that until I left. And I honestly can't see why they should be persecuted for something they cannot help. They are just as homosexual as we are heterosexual or bi-sexual, so it's not fair to discriminate.

  • 2cute2btrue
    2cute2btrue

    the blood of many kittens is on my hands. lol

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