Konceptual99
Indeed however since you are new here you probably don't know that I am on a long fade and working to get my family out with wrecking every family relationship that we have. You cannot force people to see the reality about the WTS so this is the path I am taking.
I have Aspergers. In my world, you either like or dislike me. I couldn't care less which. If people don't like what I do or say, then get the hell out of my life and stay out of it. There are other people in this world that may like me for who/what I am. It may sound callous but why would I want to be with people that don't want to be with me.
That's my take but I also understand that not a lot of people are like me.
Like Punkofnice says, you are the master of your own ship. Your the one who will suffer if you get it wrong - not me.
All I was doing was asking a question, not criticising.
What I can't get my head around is the difference between what you guys call a long slow fade and just not turning up one day.
To me, leaving jovie land is leaving jovie land and it doesn't matter whether it's quick or slow because the end point is the same. I don't understand why the results aren't i.e. a quick leave results in shunning whereas a long slow fade may not. What am I missing and perhaps someone will be good enough to enlighten me?
Oh and good luck with the fade.