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teejay

I started to call this thread "Porno" or something like that -- to get attention -- but since I don't know exactly what porno is, I thought I'd get down to the nitty gritty with the title.

Here's the deal: I like looking at pics and/or live video or, if I'm lucky (or out of town) real live females who have no clothes on. It's not something I do all the time, but when the mood strikes...

Okay. There! I said it.

Now, before I go any fu'tha, let me 'splain something...

I'm the type of guy that likes natural thangs. I don't particularly care for man-made... no fake NOTHING. What I'm trying to say is that, I don't mind a little "overweight", a little roll just above the waistline, a little small/large chestal area. I just like / prefer natural looking women, regardless of their flaws. Truth is... I like 'em a little thick, but that's just me.

Heck... (this is gonna shock some of you) I'm not perfect in form my own damn self, so I heartily accept imperfections. Kinda adds to the picture, if you ask *me*. Sometimes a body don't want perfection.

Now... where was I? Oh yeah...

Now, don't be looking at me like I'm crazy... like I'm the Lone Ranger and that there's no other men like me. Don't be hyperventilating like I just told you something extree, extree ordinary. I didn't. Here's a secret for all the women out there: Men actually enjoy looking at nekked women. There! I said it!!

If I hear a knock on my door later tonite, I ain't answering cause I figure one of the boys done come by to finish me off for divulging a long-hidden secret. Point is, that's the way we are. Men (at least all the men I know, have ever known, am likely to know) get something out of the experience of seeing a nekked woman, perfect or not, whether he tells you or not.

One more thing, and this might just surprise you. It don't matter how "perfect" a woman is. Her man is STILL gonna look. Think of the finest woman you know, and her man looks. My wife is a babe. Trust me -- she be hot. But, that don't stop me from looking (on the sly). Don't ask me why. A) We're wired this way; B) We get tired of the same ole same ole; C) We're stupid idiots; D) (fill in the blank)

Fight, argue, get steamed, sulk. Do whatever you have to do, but in the end, accept this as the gospel truth. Cause it is. There! I just did y'all a favor.

Here's my question (in other words, the point of this rant):

Why y'all got a problem with the way we are?

Why y'all get so offended if you find a Playboy up on the top shelf of your husband's closet?

Your man don't mean *you* no harm. So, why you trippin'?

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edited to move thread to appropriate forum...

Edited by - teejay on 13 July 2002 11:53:36

DakotaRed

Uh oh, Teejay, sounds like the wife done caught you looking again, huh? Time for a bouquet of flowers.

Lew W

Kismet

TeeJay:

It's one reason that I start the threads I start. I know I'm not the only one who has thoughts of interest that don't involve boobs, oral sex, Britney Spears (oh! Did I repeat myself???), etc., even if those *are* threads that *sometimes* amuse / entertain / inform also.
I say: "If the place isn't like you like, do what you can to make it better... to raise the bar; make people think."

I am just curious if this was an attempt to raise the bar? Or as a result of going to one? lol

Kismet

Marilyn

Teejay, tell us something we don't know? What's the big deal your making? So you were gifted a whole bunch more testosterone than the fairer sex and it makes you like anything to do with procreation. So what? It doesn't bother me that you and the rest of hetrosexual men like looking at naked ladies - but the big deal is that sometimes we don't share your enthusiasm for you lookin' at us naked. The male appetite knows no bounds - and sadly ours does. We just can't match your interest in all things naked. Praps coz traditionally it's ended up with us being barefoot and pregnant - with loads of howling ankle bitters driving us nuts. But moving on down to now, 2002, many females have careers and kids and houses to keep up - so they can't be shedding their gear every time their man expresses an interest in seeing them naked - hell we'd be forever naked. I think we've got it worked out ok though. We shed sometimes, when the mood takes us, and the rest of the time you have your imaginations, playboy, tv, porno et al to tide you over till we are in a generous mood. Hey in my case my husband works overseas so every six weeks he get's to pig out for a whole week. Works for us!

I dunno why I answered this post. I must be crazy!

Marilyn

teejay

Kismet,

I have to laugh.

I don't apologize for what I said to Waiting. Matter of fact, I almost... I say almost told her to nevermind the thread I was about to post, cause I knew what I'd been thinking and what thread I was about to post.

Still, I like the comment of mine that you culled. See... this thread ain't about boobs, oral sex, or Britney. It's about human nature -- the unchanging/unchangeable (?) masculine human nature -- and why the other half of humanity has a problem dealing with *our* reality.

Like I said: even those juvenile threads "amuse / entertain / inform also." Even so, this thread ain't one of those, this ain't h2o, and you're not a moderator who decides what threads provoke thought and which ones don't.
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I said (you quoted): "If the place isn't like you like, do what you can to make it better... to raise the bar; make people think."

You said: I am just curious if this was an attempt to raise the bar? Or as a result of going to one? lol

While it's true that one of my genuine purposes here is to provoke thought, I haven't been to a bar since I don't know when. (going to bars has never been an interest of mine). And, no, my wife hasn't recently discovered a cache of men's magazines, either. Why I came up with this is a mystery to even me.

The truth of what I've posted is universal, though. I (or someone else) could post this very same thread ten or a hundred years from now and it would still be valid. Men like looking at nekked women, and women, for the most part, have a problem with that reality. From some of my more sensible sisters, I'd like to know why that is.

[Note: Despite the more (quote, unquote) HIGH BROW posts I've attempted here on JW.com, I find it odd that you would stoop to answer / challenge me on this one. Makes a body wonder.]

teejay

No big deal, Marilyn. Really.

Are you married? Have a boyfriend?

If so, would it bother you to KNOW that your significant other looks (and finds some enjoyment in looking) at other women who appeal to him physically?

If *that* bothers you, WHY does it bother you?

My thesis is: he can't help it. It's the way he's made. That's all I'm saying.

IOW: it's not a big deal, so why do so many women make it a big deal?

Kismet

Nothin to wonder about really. Just timing.

The thread I read just before opening this one was where I read your quoted comment and I was nodding in agreement then I opened this thread. It was on my mind, so I said it. Simple.

No big deal really.

Take care,

Kismet - who is off to a bar to play some darts with some buds.

Marilyn

teejay - I'm nearly 50 and I've been hitched for 30 yrs. No it doesn't bother me that my SO likes to look at other women - I even point em' out to him sometimes.It would bother me if he was drooling over some woman at an inappropriate time. (time and place for everyting) and yes I do think it's natural because of the amount of testosterone in the male body. If you blocked the testosterone, guess what? You wouldn't be very interested in the female naked body. It's just chemistry. I might sound somewhat smug here, but I am a confident person and was lucky enough to be born with reasonable features. If I was other than I am, I might be more insecure and therefore resent my loved one window shopping. I think overly jealous relationships don't last. Hey teejay this is a non issue if ever there was one. We seem to be agreeing on the bleedin' obvious!!

Prisca

My two cents:

Women don't like the thought of their man looking at porno becos they are afraid that their man will prefer what they are looking at, compared to what they have in reality.

Thus, their man will lose interest in them, and go looking for what they saw in the porno ("porno" referring to tv, videos, mags, internet etc).

Then they'll lose their man.

I think that is what is at the heart of every woman who doesn't like their man looking at porno.

Personally, I don't have a problem with my amn looking at porno. In MODERATION. If he was using it as a substitution for getting it on with me, then I would have a problem with it. But if it was an occasional look, maybe something to give him a bit of variety, or as a substitute for when I'm not there, then I'd be ok with it. I guess it comes down to the REASONS why the guy is looking at it, not just that he is looking at it.

teejay

>> this is a non issue if ever there was one

Then you can't really help me, Marilyn, although I appreciate your interest.

You are a confident woman, secure in your looks and your man happily looking at other attractive women. This thread definitely ain't for you.

I was wondering why *other* women have a problem with what you've come to accept as natural. You have provided me with a key, maybe.

The very women I would hope to respond to my query are too insecure enough to respond in the first place. Oh me, oh my. The limitations of online research...

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