Can You See The Similarities?

by HadEnuf 3 Replies latest jw friends

  • HadEnuf
    HadEnuf

    I have done a little research and reading over the years on the holocaust and what the Jewish people went through when they were judged as unworthy as humans and so many innocents were exterminated in Hitler's "final solution". I recently read this quote from a book about women in Auschwitz and I couldn't help but see so many similarities between the way the Jews were treated and how the witnesses treat those they feel are "rebellious" or causing division or whatever other accusations they can drum up against those they want to be rid of. I believe any of us who have been shunned by friends and families can relate to how eerily (spelling?) this corresponds with the rigid and unloving way those who disagree with the "Society" are treated. (Though we cannot fully realize the ultimate horror that the Jews experienced at Nazi hands...some of the treatment handed out by witnesses can also result in severe trauma and what I refer to as PTWSD...Post Traumatic Witness Stress Disorder.")

    Fritzies first recollection of the effects of occupation was of her schoolteacher denying her access to her continued education. The teacher told Fritzie that she was no longer allowed to attend the school because she was Jewish.

    A teacher who was my teacher who took out a white handkerchief from his pocket the week before to wipe a smudge off my face, turned to me one day and told me I must not come to school anymore. Within a days time, Jews were labeled as different, inferior, and in need of segregation and regulation. The government established rules for access to educational institutions, time limits for shopping or walking on public streets or working, bans for sitting on public benches, and mandates for wearing a yellow star to indicate that one was Jewish. Each day brought about another legislated rule, another edict, or a new law to restrict freedom and dignity.

    If someone came toward someone who was not a Jew, the Jew needed to step off the sidewalk to allow the next person who of course was not Jewish to walk by. I recall our neighbors turning their backs on us. Spitting on us. Neighbors who lived in peace with us, who were our friends the week before.

    In March 1944 the Jews were told to gather their belongings for relocation in a ghetto in their own town. They quickly realized they had mistakenly believed the lies of those they had trusted. Though hopeful they would be relocated in a safe place, they soon realized that their fate led to imprisonment. I will never understand how one human neighbor, a friend can turn against you, a person who has lived with you in peace, who watched you being born, who has gone to school with you, who knows your family and knows your life history but, nevertheless, that's what they did.

    Quoted from Love Carried Me Home--Women Surviving Auschwitz by Joy Erlichman Miller, Ph.D.

    Edited by - HadEnuf on 1 July 2002 12:33:33

    Edited by - HadEnuf on 1 July 2002 14:47:36

  • Nowfree
    Nowfree

    The way witnesses are told to treat ex-witnesses is very similar.

    Trouble is the Witnesses would never see it - they see themselves as being righteous, God's people on the earth. That is the hardest thing to try and break. Only when they do see the organisation in a different light will they ever realise how despicably they have treated other people.

    Still - their loss!

    You never experience true friendship until you leave the Watchtower society.

    Nowfree

  • HadEnuf
    HadEnuf

    I am just beginning to understand this after over 4 decades in the organization Nowfree. Those that I felt I had the closest bonds to just disappeared as soon as there was any "whiff" of discord against the elders on our part. Though my husband and I are neither disfellowshipped or da'd...we are treated like lepers by those we happen to meet. Even my own mother and dear sister have joined in the shunning...only because we had enough courage to go against two bodies of elders.

    Hitler wanted to rid himself of those who disagreed with his "world view" and so do the witnesses. Otherwise why would they be preaching the destruction of most of the world and the "saving" of only witnesses into a new system of things? I am quite ashamed that for all those years I thought as they did. How freeing to finally know as you stated Nowfree...that TRUE, UNCONDITIONAL friendship really only exists outside of this organization.

  • Nowfree
    Nowfree

    Hadenuf,

    All the while you are in the org and doing everything that you should be doing, "brothers and sisters" will be all over you like a rash.

    Since I left, i can count on one hand all the JWs that have taken the initiative to speak to me. Like you I am not DA or DF, but I might as well be. Most of them ACTIVELY shun me, like my mother in law, JW neighbours a few doors down the road, JWs at work. You would think i had the plague.

    I have had one shepherding visit (Oct 01), which didn't actually help one bit, although it confirmed to me why I had stopped attending meetings.

    The majority of witnesses will also shun my parents.

    Yet one person i grew up with (was DF 5 years ago), is still a very close friend to me and I can rely on them as a true friend. So we are all being shunned together!! We see it like a kind of game now. See how awkward we can make it for them!

    The way i look at it is that we know from experience, the panic a JW feels when they come across an exJW, and the dilemma of "am I allowed to talk to them?". So we are at an advantage, they haven't got a clue what it is like to be on our side of the Kingdom Hall door!

    As i said before - their loss

    Nowfree

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