My family has known I'm an apostate

cognac

I found out that my husband has not only gone to the elders, but has been going to members of my family about me over a period of a few years. I mean, why would he go to my family??? Why not ANYBODY ELSE???

This piece of news is just so depressing. I've been wondering how my family knew I didn't go and thats why so many of them have becoming more and more distant. He's taken away so many people I have loved. I just can't believe he did this.

I can take a lot but this is just to much. There was no reason for it. I even understood why he went to the elders but this??? I can't get beyond the fact that this was all his doing. I'm so upset I don't even want to get out of bed. I just want to lay here all day and cry. :(

poopsiecakes

Finding out how low a good little cult member will go is extremely disturbing. I'm so sorry this is happening to you, Cognac. :(

lisaBObeesa

I'm so, so sorry.

ptt7000

Sleeping with the enemy is disturbing. It will take some time to get over the hurt and depends on your personality and relationship with hubby but I would let him know that you know this and allow him to explain himself. I probably shouldn't be commenting because I don't tolerate disloyalyty in a mate, but I love being by myself too. lol Take Care

cognac

PTT - He was the one who told me.

I don't think I've ever felt so betrayed... :(

minimus

Cognac, you have to understand the cult mentality that exists. He is in a cult. He sounds like a man that needs to feel important. Maybe he is simple minded and impressionable. Whatever, he is a cultist, and what do you expect?

Oubliette

Cognac, I really feel for you.

It is really disturbing what this cult can get people to do to each other. It calls to mind this thought by Voltaire:

'Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities.' - Voltaire

My family has known I'm an apostate

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