Hi Adam... that's why I joined also... although not to help someone, but help myself as I work with 2 sisters was 3 and I don't mean sisterly JW but sisterly family and after 14 years the oldest one and the others have turned against me and tried to get me fired... didn't work lol but the third one is gone and the second is on her last legs because of their attitude. Sorry, rambling but I've been to the freemind site, franz site then lucked on to this one. Couldn't believe they could be so nice to my face and stab me in the back... but reading here I find out that's what they're all about. Anyways, the one thing I have learned from all my fact finding is that there is no such word as 'forgiveness' or 'forgive' in their doctrine.