by Jessc8877 13 Replies latest watchtower scandals
I agree with Jgnat. Make him pay a lot and then NEVER see him again. His wife isn't your problem. She will figure it out one of these days as you did, and she's in for some unhappiness no matter what you do.
As for you, maybe get some counseling to see why you stuck with someone that sleazy for so long. Then you'll make better choices in the future. I'm not trying to be sarcastic, I'm serious. All of us need some counseling now and then to understand ourselves better.
Walk away. Don't interfere with his marriage. Let someone else be the homewrecker. It will probably backfire right into your face. YOu would be the messenger, as well as the other woman. You can't win. Chalk it up to experience. Fix your broken picker (boyfriend partner picker) and gracefully move on. I've seen several messengers get shot. And I've seen the "other woman" really mess things up for her self royally. There is no dignity in telling someone's wife you've had an affair with her husband, even if he didn't tell you that he was married, in the first place.
He (your recently X'd boyfriend) is a total scumbag and deserves to be exposed as the hypocrit he is.
He made his bed, now let him sleep in it.
We have a women who is working on her eight marriage, a stupid JW woman was afraid of losing her husband after finding out her husband was having sex with "Eight Marriage Elaine", dumb sister got pregnant and now is fighting her husband for child support, why do people think getting pregnant is going to lock a man to their side? Eight Marriage Elaine is now pregnant too, she has six kids from five different men and her Dad "Elder BlowHard (He could miss months of meetings working in another Country and received the Organization's blessing, is it any wonder while he was working for the Organization in other lands his family in the United States imploded and started to hate the BORG?) has tried to keep her from getting Disfellowshiped by pulling every favor he has ever done, did not work!
Why would a man or woman marry a person who has been married Seven Times? For JWs "The Seven Times" might be intriguing but for any rational human, they would run from a person with emotional problems this bad. People in the area know who I am talking about, she is a witch and a bully!
Spiritual Paradise, a man get's found out he is married to two different women and has kids from each wife. How come the Holy Spirit did not remove this Elder from the Congregation? Why was he allowed to give parts on the Assemblies and be a All-Star Elder when it came to the area he lived? Why are JWs so shocked when things that happen in a Cult happen to them? It's the smart JW who finally say's "Hmmm, if it looks like a "cult thing" and sounds like a "cult thing", it's probably a Cult!
