"Come along and help serve lunch to the pioneer school - it'll be fun!" I was introduced to the circuit overseer's wife who looked me up and down like What the hell are YOU doing here! and didn't say a word, just turned away to speak with someone else.
I worked my tail off and it was NOT fun. Most of the pioneers were hoity and toity, condescending and self-important.
After that when they talked about time for our cong to serve lunch to the pioneer school I just ignored it all.