Welcome back nicolaou!
Glag you're not the dead guy thay was joined ...
Hope things are going well, it's good to take a break.
I agree 100% about how to fight for families and friends.
People don't join the WTS because of logical argued doctrine and no amount of arguing about right or wrong will convince them while they are in and believers. I truly believe that waving banners is 100% not effective and possibly contributes to convincing people that the WTS is correct (by proving them right) . No, people typically join because of personal reasons and because of friends and family and leave because of the same things, personal treatment and injustice.
We need to show them that there is life beyond the WTS and it is possible to leave, be happy, not be immediately struck down by leprosy etc...