What did/do you most look fwd to?

by SPAZnik 32 Replies latest jw experiences

  • SPAZnik
    SPAZnik

    After 29 years of bondage...
    I'm loving living it up.
    And wondering...
    when you first left,
    what things did you most look forward to doing
    that you couldn't do b4?
    Or, for that matter, what things do u still look forward to?

    SPAZ

  • teenyuck
    teenyuck

    I looked forward to sleeping in on Saturday and Sunday...and not going door to door begging for dimes.

    Then I got my first job, out of college, and it required OT on Saturdays...at least I was paid...never made a penny going door to door.

  • SPAZnik
    SPAZnik

    oops - forgot to put a couple of mine in...
    not in any particular order of importance...

    -driving a 2-door hehe (what a rebel)

    -watching roadrunner cartoon
    (mom always said it was bad cuz of "reincarnation" of wiley coyote blowing himself up and coming back to life for the next episode haha)

    exploring my sexuality sans guilt...
    - guilt-free masturbation (i'm getting really good hehe)
    - same sex experiences (then i can comment on syn's thread re gaybars)

    -finally free to skydive

    -and...i can go be a firefighter even tho it involves shiftwork! wahoo!

    *smirk*

    SPAZ

  • SPAZnik
    SPAZnik

    Puffs, yes! Sleeping in! That's a definite keeper.
    And evenings off to do everything or nothin' ya want!!

    SPAZ

  • teenyuck
    teenyuck

    Oh yeah...not going blind!

  • Dutchie
    Dutchie

    Ditto Puff: After working all week, the last thing I wanted to do on weekends was to march around blocks peddling watchtower magazines.

  • slipnslidemaster
    slipnslidemaster

    I'm not following you.

    Why would anyone want to give up Bondage? I find if so refreshing and freeing to tie someone up. It's so hot!!!

    Slipnslidemaster:"I worked very hard and I earned all the attention I'm getting."
    - Anna Kournikova

    Unseen Apostate Directorate of North America

  • closer2fine
    closer2fine

    I've been out 11 years - left when I was 19.

    I looked forward to expanding my dating pool. (pickings were really slim)

    Sex

    Celebrating Holidays

    College (this was when it was taboo)

    Bigger life goals than pioneering & the prestige of being an elders wife

    No more meetings & service

    Rated R movies

    closer

    Solid stone is just sand and water, baby
    Sand and water, and a million years gone by - beth nielsen chapman

  • SPAZnik
    SPAZnik

    slipn' - yeah baby yeah altho i go thru different phases
    sometimes i prefer to do the tying. hehe

    closer2fine - yes re college! i have totally been enjoying pursuing some career goals that i wasn't able to b4. just going to school past grade12 was taboo when i was in. and just having the OPTIONS!! to do what i really want.

    puffs - love it!! haha

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    No more meetings!
    No more field service!
    No more elders watching my every move.

    Free to have [Oooooo] WORLDLY friends.
    Free to read whatever I want.
    Free to watch whatever movie I want.
    Free to sleep in on Saturday and Sunday.
    Free to do things on "meeting" nights.

    "As every one knows, there are mistakes in the Bible" - The Watchtower, April 15, 1928, p. 126
    Believe in yourself, not mythology.
    <x ><

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