All of us, carry, happinesses and hurts, in our minds and hearts.
When the imbalance of lack of love in the supposedly, "You will know them, by the love among them" becomes to great to bear, then she is ready to leave. Thankfully, your wife will always have you, with your unconditional love for her, to fall back on.
JW love and friendship are fake. You know her. She knows you. You are new here. There are success stories here of Bros. who have awaken, before their wives, and have tenderly lead them out. I am sure, in time, she will see what an embaressing, controlling, money grabbing, abusive religion she has been in.
Have you read anything about the early years of the WTB&TS? It is so wacko. That's why they want to keep you dumbed-down and uneducated and totally obedient, not to God, but to those silly men, that keep making and changing there own rules! It would be laughable if it wasn't so dreadfully sad.
It is scary at first, like the unknown is. I just learned TTATT last March. I was a born-in. My age? 63