Here is some other information in how cults mentally coerce people into their organizations and mentally control them when they do have them under their control.
1. Milieu (Environmental) Control
- Control over the members' flow of information and social interaction.
In many groups, there is a "no gossip" rule that keeps people from
expressing their doubts or misgivings about what is going on. Members
are taught to report those that break the rule, a practice that
increases dependence on the leadership. They are sometimes told not to
believe anything they see or hear reported by the media.
How Milieu Control is Used in Totalistic Groups:
Information is deliberately held back from members, and many times
it is twisted and distorted, even presented with lies. What members
might know at any given time varies with their position held in the
organization and is controlled at the top of the pyramid structure (headquarters).
Members are told not to trust any other material that is critical
of the group, or to read any Christian literature that does not come
from their headquarters or leader. Members are not to get close to those
who are outside the group, or associate with former members. They are
not to observe holidays they consider "pagan" and, in many cases,
birthdays. Higher education is frowned upon, as is getting involved in
their community. Their time is taken up with holy day or feast
observances and many other activities that group members engage in.
When they write, speak or think, it is to reflect only the group's
philosophy and not their own ideas or feelings. As a result, they do
not test their own reality around them. Members are taught that to
discuss their doubts and misgivings about doctrine, about "God's
Apostle," "the Elijah," the local minister, Headquarters, sermons, etc.,
is "gossip" and/or "lies," and should not be engaged in. They come to
feel they are seeing all things as God sees them. Independent,
self-expressing is thwarted.
Members are instructed to keep an eye on the others and let the
minister know when another member is breaking the Sabbath, not tithing,
listening to rock music, seeing a doctor, or doing any number of things
which headquarters has spelled out as sin. Elders and deacons listen in
on conversations between members before services to make sure there is
no "bad talk."
If the group or leader is exposed by the media for financial
improprieties, immorality, fraud, abuse, violation of the civil law,
lying, etc., the members attribute this news to "Satan attacking the
Work" and being "Satan's lies." The frequent use of the word "attack" is
a smokescreen to cause members to focus on Satan and perceived
"enemies," instead of what is really going on.
2. Mystical Manipulation
- The group attributes supernatural influences where none are
present--attributing an accident to a member that left to be "God's
punishment"--or manipulates situations so they appear
spontaneous--members believing that their new feelings and behavior has
arisen spontaneously because of joining their new group. The effect is
enhanced by the milieu control because dissenting or alternative ideas
are not present.
How Mystical Manipulation is Used in Totalistic Groups:
Members are to have a child-like trust in whatever they are
taught. The group is considered the "only church where God is working"
or the "one true church of God"; therefore, if members do or don't do
something that is required of them, whatever incident that follows is
said to be a result of the member's prior actions.
For instance, if a member and his family decide to leave the Feast
of Tabernacles early and not stay through to the "Last Great Day" (or
until the sun sets) and the driver ends up getting in a car accident
and/or dying, the ministers will tell the members that the reason this
happened was because of "disobedience" or "rebellion to God's
government"; that God's Holy Spirit was at the Feast and not with the
member who left, and that is why he had the accident and died.
If a member disobeys in the area of tithing; e.g., not being
"faithful" in paying all of his tithes, and then goes backwards
financially, he is told that since he has "disobeyed God," or "not
obeyed the Government of God," God has personally seen to it that he
suffered his present financial difficulties and/or financial collapse.
He can even be told that he is "putting his salvation in jeopardy."
Likewise, if members keep the Sabbath, observe Passover, attend
the Feast of Tabernacles (and other holy days), give generous offerings
and pay all their tithes, and then soon afterwards receive a raise, a
new job, new home, new car, etc. then it is all attributed to their
obedience in that area.
If someone experiences elevated emotions or a "high" after
baptism, or during the Feast of Tabernacles, it is said to be because
God is in that experience. If the weather is good at the Feast, it is
because "God's true church" is meeting there for God's holy days.
Members feel "chosen" and that they are a part of something very
important and urgent (i. e., "God's Work"); that their one true purpose
in life is being fulfilled. They lose their critical thinking skills and
are unable to exercise their independence and own decisions.
3. Demand for Purity - Unreasonable
rules and unreachable standards are imposed upon the members. The
critical, shaming essence of the cult environment is gradually
internalized by the members, which builds lots of guilt and shame,
further magnifying their dependence on the group. Individuals easily
feel inadequate, but are more willing to submit to this because the
milieu control limits critical questioning, and the mystical
manipulation validates the group's rules.
How Demand for Purity is Used in Totalistic Groups:
Perfection and striving against "sin" (which will be defined by
the group's headquarters) is highly stressed, along with fear of what
will happen if one fails, or leaves the group. (This manipulation is
called fear phobia induction.)
Every rule is to be followed exactly; e.g., being on time for Sabbath
services, attending every Bible study and holy day, tithing faithfully,
having their family under control at all times, avoiding all that is
"pagan," always having a good attitude, giving offerings at every holy
day, etc. Every thought is to be brought into captivity and the mind is
to be kept "pure." They are instructed to get every spot and wrinkle out
of Christ's bride (themselves) and to denounce the outside world. This
aim of perfection cannot be attained; therefore, there is a constant
striving, failing and resultant shame, guilt and fear of punishment.
These rules serve to keep members isolated from the outside world and
more dependent on the group. It also leads to much emotional and
spiritual bondage.
4. Confession
- Past and present behavior, undesirable feelings are to be confessed.
However, the information gained about you can be used against you to
make you feel more guilty, powerless, fearful and ultimately in need of
the group and the leader's goodness. This environment is set up by the
unreasonable demand for purity.
How Confession is Used in Totalistic Groups:
This is usually carried out in the form of a ministerial visit.
Members are made to confess to things they haven't done. All prospective
members (new converts) receive a visit from the minister where they are
probed and questioned about their private life. Members are eager to
relieve themselves of their guilt and so will unburden themselves to the
ministers. This causes an emphasis on performance. Usually after this
"opening up," the next time the group meets as a whole (usually on a
Sabbath) the minister will target the member from the pulpit. No names
are mentioned; however the member knows the sermon is directed at
him/her in particular. This creates more shame and guilt and causes the
member to feel they must try harder to "obey God" in every detail.
Members' minds are not their own and there is no balance between
self worth and humility. There is a struggle regarding what to reveal
and what to keep secret, but members feel a need to confess their
thoughts, their experiences and all that the organization considers
"sin, rebellion, bad attitudes, selfishness, etc." Those who open up in
private to other members about their struggles ("sins") are later looked
down on and shunned as "less converted," or "unconverted." In addition,
records are often kept by the minister on those people who come for
"counseling"; consequently, new ministers who come into the area are
kept up to date.
Confession causes more of a merging with the group and its goals.
However, when members end up being made to feel it is all their fault,
they end up feeling more hopeless, more guilty and more in need of
striving.
5. Sacred Science - The teachings of
the group are viewed as the ultimate, unquestionable truth. The leader
of the group is likewise above criticism as the spokesperson for God on
earth, whose Truth should be applied to all humankind and anyone who
disagrees or has alternative ideas is not only irreverent, but also
unscientific. Mystical manipulation often lends credence to the group's
doctrine.
How Sacred Science is Used in Totalistic Groups:
The teachings in the group are considered "the Truth" which God
revealed only to the leader in this end time age, and he is considered
"God's spokesman" or "Apostle," to restore the true gospel. This is
constantly taught in sermons and co-worker/dear brethren letters.
Members are taught that neither is to be questioned, because it will be
the same as questioning God and His "government"; i. e., headquarters.
This "Truth" is presented as what the entire world needs to know in
order to be set free, and it is what true science reveals to mankind.
If a member becomes interested in other ideas which contradict the group's truth, it can create guilt and fear.
6. Loading the Language
- The group's language serves the purpose of constructing their
thinking and shutting down critical thinking abilities. "Groupspeak"
forces members to censor, edit and slow down spontaneous bursts of
criticism or opposite ideas. Soon members find it easier to talk among
themselves than with outsiders, who are given derogatory names such as
"of Satan," "unconverted," etc.
How Loading the Language is Used in Totalistic Groups:
The topic of conversation among members often is, "When did you
come into the Truth?" or "How did you find out about the Truth?" Other
groupspeak is "the Work," "doing the Work," "God's end time Work," "the
Church," "the brethren," "the true Gospel," "God's way," "God's
Government," "a government problem," "the Kingdom," "qualify for the
Kingdom," "Place of Safety," "the Feast," "God's Apostle,"
"Headquarters," "attack from Satan," "Satan's lies," "destroy God's
Work," "spiritual widow/widower," "marked," "the world," "Laodicean,"
etc. If someone outside the group begins talking about something that
makes the member very uncomfortable, the member will simply "tune them
out" (dissociate/ block out the words), and believe they don't
understand because they don't know "the Truth." Since outsiders do not
understand exactly what is being spoken of, members feel more
comfortable talking only to other members. Also see: Buzzwords (or Loading the Language)
7. Doctrine Over Person
- As members rewrite their own personal history or ignore it, they are
simultaneously taught to interpret reality through the group concepts
and ignore their own experiences and feelings as they occur. Members
learn to fit themselves into the group's way of life and individuals are
valued only as they conform to group doctrine.
How Doctrine Over Person is Used in Totalistic Groups:
Doctrine encompasses the entire group experience and is more real
and valid than the person and his feelings or experiences. The past is
to be considered of no consequence and is to be reinterpreted, or
forgotten. If someone was baptized prior to coming into the group, it is
considered "invalid." Miracles or prayers that were answered prior to
person coming in contact with the group are considered coincidence, or
"of Satan."
If a member has an experience or feeling that contradicts what the
group teaches; e.g., hearing about a Christian outside of the group
that received an answered prayer, or miracle, they will reinterpret it
by saying that "it wasn't really an answer," or "in certain
circumstances God may answer an unconverted person's prayer, but they
aren't a true Christian; they are deceived."
When a member finds out a minister (or the founder) is doing
something opposite than what he teaches; e.g., has committed adultery
with someone in the congregation, sexually abused a member's child, told
lies, or gotten drunk, they will block out all negative thoughts and
questions, and use the excuse that "the ministers aren't perfect." The
excuse is that "God will correct him in time." Members are to continue
to follow him regardless, because they must "obey the Government of
God."
A member's individual potential or identity is subjugated to the
group's doctrine, which is considered "the Truth." Those who don't
conform are considered "deceived," "unconverted," or "of Satan" and are
either driven out by shunning or disfellowshipment.
8. Dispensing of Existence - The
group's totalistic environment emphasizes that the members are part of
an elite or special group. Outsiders are considered unworthy or
unenlightened. This thinking leads to the thinking that their whole
existence centers on being in the group. If you leave, you join
nothingness. This is an extension of doctrine over person. Existence
comes to depend on creed (I believe, therefore, I am), submission (I
obey, therefore, I am) and total merger with the group's ideology. This
is the final step in creating members' dependence on the group.
How Dispensing of Existence is Used in Totalistic Groups:
Members totally and completely believe their group is "God's only
true Church on earth" and only within it is "God's Truth" preached. They
willingly alienate themselves from the activities and people in the
"unconverted world" (who are all "deceived and following Satan"), and
they allow their entire lives to circle around the organization and "the
end time Work," which alone gives them their purpose for being born. To
think any other way is to experience intensely uncomfortable feelings
of confusion, guilt, fear and alienation. If they leave the organization
they believe wholeheartedly that they will not only lose "the Truth"
and have their minds taken over by Satan, but they will lose the Holy
Spirit, lose God, lose their chance for eternal life, lose their purpose
for living, and in so many words, be "annihilated." Their existence has
become the group.
~Adapted from Chapter 22: "Ideological Totalism," Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism by Robert Jay Lifton.
These eight conditions are also discussed in Recovery From Cults
(Help For Victims of Psychological and Spiritual Abuse) edited by
Michael D. Langone), pp. 91-97, "Robert Jay Lifton and Mind Control."
What is a Destructive Group?
A destructive group is a highly manipulative group or organization
which exploits its members and can cause emotional, financial and
physical harm. It dictates, in an absolute manner, the behavior,
thoughts and emotions of its followers. Coercion and manipulation
techniques are used to transform the new recruit into a loyal, obedient
and subservient member.
Destructive groups claim a special status, for themselves or their
leader, that usually sets them in opposition to mainline society and/or
the family.
Destructive groups conceal their real nature and goals from
prospective members by adopting deceptive behavior in order to attract
new recruits.
