Good luck Mickey and Mr MM !
We are all here for you too, it is hard, the initial dealing with family, much depends on them, my lot decided that whatever, they would not precipitate my being DA'd or Df'd, they had a family conference first, before they spoke to me,bless em ! How funny is that ?
The result has been that I have been able to explain my position, without fear they would repeat my words to Nazi Elders. So I am just an "inactive" non-attender, they never talk religion with me now, but that suits me, the whole situation suits me.
I hope you achieve whatever you want too.