I guess I thought that since I could listen to reason and agree with them on certain things, I could expect the same back from my spouse.
It is frustrating to say the least but it does illustrate the two personalities inside every cultist. I just wasn't aware of them before. It has also opened my eyes to the fear tactics present in the beliefs I was taught and I have been reexamining them too.
I have been refraining from speaking about the religion. I just recently told her that I did not want religion to divide us but I did want our faith in God to unite us. I find it amazing that we supposedly read the same Bible, worship the same God, and yet my religion and hers calls each other false. The Christian religion needs to grow up.