Thank goodness I left before oral sex. My father was a prude. All the Bethelites seem to be prudes. It takes a disoriented man to see a menstrual cycle as filth. Their marriages must have been strange and challenging to say the least. My father was raised in the Rutherford school of absolute hatred towards women yet not being able to keep hands off women. Repeatedly, Biblical examples were cited indicating the purity and righetousness of men and how women lure them from God.
Altho I was so young, I knew something was up with the focus on sexual matters. It seems they worked hard to raise sexual matters. My intellectual terror of demons ended when the WT printed an article about a demon materializing on some woman's bed in England. Oooooh. Oooooh.
This isn't funny when you are raised by such parents. I had a major grudge against a JW classmate who was given preferential treatment by an asst. overseer. It turns out he was a pedophile. That sobered me. In retrospect, he picked on the more helpless girls, without strong family ties. Still, there but for the grace of God. Packed with his Rutherford ideas, my father would have killed me.
A local nun was brutally raped in our local Catholic church. My mom's work friend was very devout. It happened in her parish. My father publicly announced that the nun deserved to be raped because she was a Catholic nun. This is being Christian at your best. Her friend was Christian enough to understand a terrible marriage. If she repeated it, he probably would have been beat to a pulp or even worse. This was solid Mafia country. Again, no Society official said so but the culture did not stop it, either.