tellthetruth- you are right, if i spilled my guts, it would all be over for the moment...then I would be a good little JW again, yielding to men. My actions have a specific purpose, will I be judged by others? Yes, but can I live with myself? Absolutely, sleeping soundly. I understand your point of view though. Welcome!
darkuncle- yes I am a one woman balancing act- hope I can keep juggling :) thanks for your comment.
illuminator- awww fresh out of eggs... will have to restock
nugget- yes, I am angling for a legal recourse & I have sent them a letter requesting only to be contacted by mail, as I am stumbled by harrassment of mom and landlady.
3mozzies- (I hope mozzie means your a morrissey fan, because I am too) Thanks, I think I will end up loosing her in the end, but I want to break the news about CSG my way- not their way