So last night my 6 year old tells me that her dad said to her while tucking her in at night "Mama is going to die because she caused the divorce, and grandpa wanted mommy to divorce me all the days of his life."
(My dad left the lie when I was 5, and I left a year ago... and subsequently am almost through with the divorce and the ex is a bitter, ignorant, crazy tempered JW). So its all our fault, and I am going to die, makes sense.
Last night I called up the ex and told him that he was nothing short of a mental pedophile, that you don't tell your daughter her mother is as good as dead, and he needs to knock it off and he is in violation of our anti-disparagement agreement that the courts have insisted on due to the religious and personal strife between us. He hung up on me when he realized he dug himself in a hole lol.
This morning I asked her if she was making it up, and she insisted she was not, and to ask daddy. So I told her I did, and he said he didnt say it, and why would mommy die? She said "at armageddon." So I reminded her that the lie has been spread for years that armageddon was coming and we are all still alive. She said "They just tell us that so we are scared." SHE GETS IT.
This is what keeps me up at night, the mental garbage my kids are fed at the hands of "loving christian family."