So I met a woman at a store I used to go to the KH with like 20 years ago. Her two boys were always "studying" with someone in the congregation. I asked her how her children were doing and she hurried past the obligatory he's married with children in a race to excidedly tell me he's studying.
No pictures or ooing about the grand kids. I just stared at her.... I didn't know what to say. I didn't mean to be rude, I was just dumbfounded.