yknot,
I'll give it a try. Sometimes, I find it hard to hold back when I see B.S. or programmed responses. She really thinks that I have no belief system simply because I do not readily drink her or any other religion's kool-aid without checking all things. I even tell her how I can see some things their (the Watchtower's) way but that is not good enough. Typical Jehovah's Witness programmed response.
She thinks all people who leave the religion do it for selfish reasons. The religious leaders of the Society are good researchers. It is so sad how mentally programmed she is and she does not even know it.