I didn't *blast* you for wanting to be a celibate Jehovah's Witness homosexual. I said that I didn't think that you're loving & living with another homosexual male - indeed, having much prior sex with him until you decided to become celibate - and stating that you would continue loving and living with the same homosexual male with no display of love or sex for the rest of both of your lives - would be a hard swallow for most elders.
A woman would not be allowed to continue to live with her common-law husband - even if she refused to have sex with him. Why would it be any different for you?
Being charmed by you doesn't enter into the picture, imho. Reality of the situation does.