Hi Reniaa,
OK I'll leave you with this for now. Read slowly and mull it over before you reply :)
John 14:15-26 (New International Version)
Jesus Promises the Holy Spirit
15 "If you love me, you will obey what I command. 16 And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever—
When the Counselor comes to believers, He will be with us forever. 17 the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you.
Same deal, the Holy Spirit will live with us and in us. 18 I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.
Now Jesus says the same thing but that He is coming to us. Jesus and His Holy Spirit are one and the same. 19 Before long, the world will not see me anymore, but you will see me. Because I live, you also will live.
Jesus re-iterates the point, He will live within the believer and cause us to live. 20 On that day you will realize that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you.
Several layers here, all to do with the Holy Spirit. 21 Whoever has my commands and obeys them, he is the one who loves me. He who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love him and show myself to him."
22 Then Judas (not Judas Iscariot) said, "But, Lord, why do you intend to show yourself to us and not to the world?"
23 Jesus replied, "If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching. My Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him.
Now Jesus is saying "we will come" to the believer!
Just to recap, in verse 17 Jesus says the Holy Spirit comes to us. Then in verse 18 Jesus says that He Himself is coming to us. Now in verse 23 Jesus says the Father is coming to us.
I would use the "T" word here but that is like a red rag to a bull. However, I am sure you can see that Jesus says that three different persons are coming to the believer, the Holy Spirit, the Son and the Father?
24 He who does not love me will not obey my teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me.
25 "All this I have spoken while still with you. 26 But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you.
Jesus says that the Father will send the Holy Spirit in Jesus' name! Awesome.
OK I am going to take my own advise and catch some more rays :)
All the best,
Stephen