A comment was made on another thread about how sloppy some JWs dress at conventions. Instead of hi-jacking that thread, I thought I'd start a new one on the subject.
I always noticed that there seemed to be two, opposite directions of how JW men dressed at conventions...and in general. And I'm speaking more of the married with children JW male...not the young, on the prowl, horny dub male in search of his female counterpart.
I noticed that many, if not most, brothers wore cheap suits or even worse, polyester slacks, white, short-sleeved shirt with a clip-on tie. Both the slacks and the shirt at least one size too small. Brown shoes and a black belt. The suit jacket was off the rack and ill-fitting or maybe a sport jacket that didn't match the rest of the ensemble.
But then there were some brothers who were more fashion conscious. They wore expensive suits, colored shirts, matching ties and hankies in the pocket. Expensive belt and shoes...matching leather of course. Nice rings and expensive watches. Of course some of them were showing off to some degree, but I noticed that some just knew (or their wives knew) how a man should appear when required to wear a suit.
I learned from watching these different types that if you're going to have to dress up, you need to do it right. Just throwing a tie around your neck is not dressing up. You can actually look worse by wearing a tie with the wrong style shirt or slacks.
Even though I couldn't afford top notch clothing, I did make it a point to buy fitted suits and nice shirts and ties. I didn't like dressing up, but if I had to do it, I wasn't gonna go 'round looking like most of those poor dub slobs you see at the conventions.
But, since I've been out I've only worn a suit two or three times a year...a tux a couple of times. I actually enjoy dressing up for special occasions now... I can enjoy the reason behind getting all gussied up once in a while compared to being forced to dress up four times a week.
How did you guys approach having to dress for assemblies and conventions?