This is really interesting to me becuase im having a similar experince.Since I stopped attending meetings ive become a much nicer more caring person and I exspect more from people.I am ashamed to say I was an arrogant and self righteous jw at times and thought myself at quite a high moral standard while actually treating people like shit.This wasnt all the wts fault or influence but since ive been happier and free its really changed my outlook.My jw parents and other family members have even commented on how much nicer I have been and how much easier to get along with.They even tell me I care TO much.hopefully its been a good ANTI-witness.lol