Congregational Get-Together Review!

by mindfield 5 Replies latest watchtower bible

  • mindfield
    mindfield

    Well, I went to the get-together I mentioned in another post. There was a small surprise, though... not only was the "younger generation" there, the whole freaking cong. was there as well! argh... And man, did I ever feel out of place! Most of the JW's barely glanced at me, maybe spared me a nod. I think they were surprised I was there as well...

    I did have fun... I'm not saying I didn't. I did get a polite "hello" or two, and the "brother" I was playing badminton with was a real nice guy. But the other hardcore brothers, boy did I feel ignored. Even my friend who invited me didn't talk that much to me. Did he even expect I'd come? Did he? ...

    Oh well. I hope my point was made. --> I can have fun, even with people who don't share my beliefs. But coming to the hall is just hypocritical. Although if someone had asked me or even made an indirect comment on my spirituality, I'd have responded. Oh yeah. Maybe something like "Are you comfortable being a JW? Cause I wouldn't want to put unnecessary doubts in your mind." Or something like that... ohwell... in my dreams.

    Well, to sum it all up, I tried to have fun, despite all the cold feelings I felt. Glances here, nods there... I'm sure some of them talked about me behind my back "Why is he here" or even better "I hope the Christian love he feels will bring him back to the ways of the truth"... yeah right! Christian love, my @$$. There was no love in that gym. Nothing but distrust. At least, I thank those who were "courageous" enough to talk and play with me.

    Sayonara!

  • siegswife
    siegswife

    I'm sorry those people made you feel snubbed. That kind of stuff hurts. They should be ashamed for allowing that sort of mindset to become their natures.

  • Ranchette
    Ranchette

    Mindfield,

    I'm sorry you had to experience that coldness.
    You don't fit in with them anymore and if they made you feel bad it's probably best to move on instead putting yourself through that.

    I am embarrassed and ashamed to admit this now but I remember what it was like being a hard core witness. An elders wife.

    I hated it when people like you showed up.I was offended that you could make it to a recreational event but couldn't seem to get to the meetings and it gave us the excuse to gossip and quote things like.
    "Lovers of pleasures rather than lovers of God".

    Sadly this and more may have been said.
    Again,I'm sorry.

    Ranchette

  • jayhawk1
    jayhawk1

    I did my fare share of snubbing too. It is an odd feeling when the people who I did my snubbing with started snubbing me over a beard. (Sorry, this post reminded me of the Beard post.) It is nice to be beyond that though. How nice it is to associate with people and not have to worry if they are "APPROVED".

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  • mindfield
    mindfield

    I agree, ranchette... i don't think i'll accept any more invitations. I tried to make a point, and it's over. They made a mess of making me feel welcome, so forget it. Even inactives who come at get-togethers had more welcome than i did. I know a "sister" who NEVER comes to the halls, we barely see her, and yet when she comes, everyone goes and talks to her. Not so with me. I don't want to sound arrogant, but I think they think I know a little bit more than I should.

    Either way, it still sucks.

  • slipnslidemaster
    slipnslidemaster

    I don't understand your last post mindfield, what IS your status with the congregation?

    I thought that you just stopped going about 4 weeks ago? You are now irregular and within 6 months inactive. How did they treat you differently and why compared to the inactive sister?

    Slipnslidemaster:"The average person thinks he isn't."
    - Father Larry Lorenzoni

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